From Behind

I don't fuck my wife in the ass nearly enough.

I'm not saying she's naughty and deserves it in a punishment kind of way (OK, maybe she does) but just in a mixing it up kind of way. It is funny, because I remember when we were first living together I was DYING to try it, but we never had much anal sex afterwards--probably because I only lasted two strokes before blowing my load. Also, I needed to ply her with much alcoholic beverages just to get her to agree to it and relax enough to let it happen.

***Funny interlude here: I LOVE licking her ass--absolutely cannot stop myself. But I only do it usually when she's already asleep and I wake up in the middle of the night. I don't know if it was because I figured she never stopped me from doing it when she woke up to it, or what, but for the past 10+ years that was how I attacked her sexy butt.***

However, after a decade of kinky, non-anal sex, my desire has been growing stronger. In the past few months, though, I have finally graduated to licking her ass and even sliding a finger in her ass while she's awake (and she didn't even kick mine for trying it!). Since it is something she seems to enjoy, I guess I never could figure out my hesitation for not trying it more often.

I imagine part of the reason is that I am not a fan of my ass being licked, penetrated, poked, prodded, fingered, stuffed, etc. If I did it to her and hurt her, I think I was concerned she'd be ready to "return the favor" in kind. So this was a situation where I decided that it was best to tread lightly.

So now, I am finally at the point where I'm comfortable enough to slide down and work my tongue over that hot ass and slide a finger in if I am pounding her with a dildo to give her a little of that double-fuck feel (which she TOTALLY gets off on). Of course, the worst part is that after finally communicating my desires about anal sex (and her reassuring me there is no retribution in her immediate plans), I'm sitting here thinking: "what the hell took me so long? I should have talked to her about this years ago. Think how much fun ass-play I have been missing out on!!!"

I'm still not going crazy with it, because I sooooooooooooooo love licking her pussy and just get lost down there for hours at a time, but I think its something I'll continue to work into.